In October last year, Ken experienced a serious medical event while driving through Riwaka (Riuwaka). His car veered into a ditch. What followed was life-changing: he was diagnosed with a brain tumour.
Ken’s journey through treatment has been complex and challenging. He travelled to Wellington for surgery and radiation therapy, staying at the Cancer Society’s Margaret Stewart House during this time. The house became a home away from home, offering rest, connection, and compassionate support during a period of enormous uncertainty.
Despite the treatment, Ken’s cancer has not responded as hoped. In March this year, he was given a prognosis of five months to live.
Through all of this, Ken has continued to give of himself. For the past three years, he has volunteered with the Motueka Riding for the Disabled (RDA), helping disabled teenagers learn how to ride, groom, and care for horses. The RDA has offered Ken not just a place to contribute but also a sense of belonging and purpose in the face of difficult circumstances. The joy and connection he has found through the horses and the young people he supports has remained a constant in his life.
Ken is also the first client our Kaiārahi Hōtaka, Tāwhaki Simons, has supported through the assisted dying process. It is not a decision made lightly. It reflects courage, clarity, and a deep understanding of what matters most to him.
We share Ken’s story with his permission and with deep respect. His journey speaks to the heart of what we do at the Cancer Society. We walk alongside people, supporting them with dignity, empathy, and care, no matter where they are in their cancer experience.
Ken, we honour your honesty, your service to others, and the strength it takes to choose your own path.
Ngā mihi nui ki a koe.
